Cohabiting before getting married, assignment help

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I believe that a couple should cohabitate before
marriage. Cohabitating before being married gives the couple a chance to really
get to know each other and their ways of living. I always said one does not know
each other until they live together. This is where you can see each others likes
and dislikes. You may not know what your getting yourself into something that
you enjoy can bother your mate to the point they do not want to be with you.
Even tho in the book it says “those who cohabit prior to marriage are most
likely to see their marriages end in divorce” (Schaefer, 2015). I highly
disagree with that I believe it will make the marriage stand longer because your
already familiar with your spouse habits and you will less likely get angry
because you have found a way to cope with it. I am not married yet but I have
lived with an significant other before and I am glad that I got to live with him
before deciding to get married because his living style and my living style
would have clashed so divorce would have been in our future. 

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I believe living with your partner before marrying is such a great idea and I
believe every couple should do it. Living with someone that you are supposed to
spend the rest of your life with is a good test to see if it will really work
before the couple commits to the long haul. You find out a lot more about
someone by the way they live than just dating them. You can see what makes them
tick, their good and bad habits, cleanliness, how they keep a home etc and those
are important things in a marriage because you don’t want to marry someone who
has bad habits or is a complete slob. That will just cause more tension for one
partner and will most likely end in arguments and possibly even divorce. If you
live with someone before you commit then you will know all these things
beforehand and will ultimately be able to decide if you can live with that
person and actually marry them. Once a couple lives together there are far
greater chances of them becoming married because it drives them to move to the
next step, marriage. ( DiDonato, 2014).

I don’t really see anything wrong with living with your partner before
marriage and I strongly encourage it, some may disagree but I feel like if my
partner was a complete slob then I wouldn’t be able to marry him because I am
not picking up after someone for the rest of my life

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